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How to Convince a Senior to Move

As you get older and eventually settle down in a more permanent residence, you will notice that many of your elders may soon need your help.  Taking care of a loved one can be a tricky situation. Although we want to help our elders as much as possible, sometimes the task can become too much of a burden, either on our family, our stress-levels, or financially.
If you are moving to Maryland with an older family member who is currently under your care, your local movers have some tips on how to help convince a senior to move. 

1) Communicate effectively. Always keep in mind that you and your older family member are going to have strong feelings when it comes to the subject of moving them to an assisted living facility or senior-type center.  Make sure that you address all feelings that you have and listen to theirs as well. 

2) Remain calm. Your older family member may be a little combative that you are discussing moving them to an assisted living facility and they may be a little angry at first. Let your elder know that you understand their reaction and that they can think about the suggestion for a while and discuss it again, once things have settled down.

3) Be practical. Explain to your elder how this is a decision that is beneficial for them and your family. If they require medical attention, help them to understand that this will allow them to receive the best possible treatment and be in an environment where they can socialize. 

4) Ensure that you will stay active in their lives. A lot of seniors fear that moving to an assisted living facility will separate them from the family. Ensure your elder that this is not the case and that you will frequent the living center and make sure that they are always welcome to visit you as well. 

5) Let them choose the facility. Allowing your older family member to choose where they move to, will allow them to feel as if they are making the decision on their own. Go on tours together and allow them to choose which facility is one that they are the most comfortable with. 

6) Go easy on yourself. Try your best to not feel bad about this decision. If this is a decision that you honestly feel will be best for your family, then discuss it with your elder. Help them to understand if you are making the decision because caring for them is affecting your work, family life, married life, and etcetera.